It has been just over a 
year after finishing undergrad; I can’t believe it. What a rollercoaster
 of a journey, and here I am on the other side 12 months later.  I’ve 
learned a lot, and I think there are many of you out there who can 
relate to my thoughts and experiences.  While this is a deeply personal 
story, I’m sharing it because I think it can help people, namely young 
adults like me.  I hope you find something useful out of it... I returned from my big euro-trip last August thinking, “Alright, time to find a job now. I went to businesses school, I’m a pretty smart kid, finding a job in business for social change shouldn’t be too difficult, right?”
WRONG.
It
 didn’t take me very long to realize the brick wall I was up against.  
It didn’t matter that I had gone to business school and that I was 
incredibly passionate and driven. As a new entrant into the workforce, 
new grads face one of most challenging and defeating barriers to 
achieving career success in our society.  We are bred to strive for 
success; we are raised to believe that with hard work, great education 
and some good-old student debt, we’re going to fly. 
But
 new grads are stuck in a really funny spot, because even though we are 
intelligent and motivated, we don’t have the ‘3-5 years of experience’, 
and no one wants to spend the money training us- at least not in this 
economic climate.  So how are we supposed to get anywhere if no one is 
willing to take us on initially? How is this system fair? 
Graduating
 from a school like Ivey brings a ton of pressure and anxiety with it.  
If you aren’t going for the more mainstream careers (finance, marketing,
 accounting, consulting), you have a mountain to climb.  I started 
business school knowing I wanted to use business tools to drive social 
and environmental change – that has been my vision all along.  I never 
wanted one of those mainstream jobs, and it was a very isolating and 
scary feeling.  Whereas most of my peers had recruiters coming to them, I
 literally had to start from scratch. 
September
 came quickly and after a few weeks of effort I started to feel really 
frustrated. I sent emails, made some phone calls, spent time on 
applications – I heard nothing in return.  I started to let myself 
believe I wasn’t smart enough, which is a slippery slope to fall down. 
Please, don’t ever let yourself think that way. And as a side note, a 
few weeks of emails and cover letters isn’t the way to find yourself a 
job – but we’ll get to that a little bit later. 
After
 an interview with a company that ended up taking an MBA grad instead of
 me, one of my interviewers recommended I check out Ashoka.  I’d never 
heard of Ashoka before, and while they weren’t hiring, it seemed their 
volunteers gained a lot of value out of the experience. 
“Volunteer?” I thought, “I can’t volunteer. I need money, I need a job. I’m a business grad for god sakes!”
After
 a few weeks of thinking this way, I checked out the Ashoka website and 
knew right away I needed to become a part of the organization.  So I put
 my ego aside and committed to volunteering for a few months.  I 
realized that if I’m going to get anywhere with my niche career 
vision and passion, I’m going to have learn more about it and build a 
network (Lesson 1!). Unfortunately, we are in an unfair system that 
takes advantage of new graduates, but until someone figures out a way to
 change it, you need to work within the system to get what you want. 
Ashoka,
 with social entrepreneurship at its core, was my answer. 
The
 Ashoka staff welcomed me with open arms and very quickly became like 
family.  I was doing interesting work, was valued by the team, and felt 
stimulated every day – I was heading in the right direction. 
After
 a few weeks, I met with an individual who is now a great mentor of 
mine.  He is one of those “must-know” people in my field.  Lesson 2: 
find the right people to get advice from.  I happen to work in the 
same office space as him, so I got pretty lucky. I asked for some career
 guidance, and he gave me the best piece of advice that I believe has 
gotten me to where I am 8 months later:
Jillian - you displayed such vulnerability and courage in sharing your experiences. When you articulate what you believe, the right people follow. We follow people who believe what we believe.
ReplyDeleteI believe!! :) In you and in your incredible experiences. The ones you have created for yourself with the help of many.
My best,
Stephen Shedletzky
You are so inspirational!
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